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Julie's three!

January 2nd, 2008 at 12:58 pm

I can't believe it's been three years ... but it's true. My little girl will be three today!

At work, everyone was asking me when her birthday party was. I looked at them all and laughed ... she's not having one. "What, you're not letting her have a birthday party?!?!!?!" She's three, she's never had a "real" party ... and I probably won't start with one until she's in school.

Apprently, I'm not the "norm" in this thought. Don't get me wrong, we celebrate her birthday. We tried to have a first birthday, but she was sick that week, and I was sick the week after. We just had neighborhood people over for cake and goodies. Then, last year, I had my sister invite all the kids over for cake, and they were upset that they hadn't brought her a gift. I thought that was cute, but told them all it didn't really matter. My mom got her some ride on Dora jeep thing ... yeah, I was so thrilled (my daughter has pratically ran me over with that thing) and I got her a box of dress up clothes (they were supposed to be her Santa gift that got caught in the Colorado blizzard that year). All in all, after buying the cake from Publix for around $30 (which is absurd!) I spent, maybe $60 on her birthday. And you know what, she was thrilled.

This year, is a little different. Yesterday was my grandmother's birthday, and it turns out today is my only day off work for the week, so we are going to go and visit her. So, I bought a cake at Publix ($30, but they are amazing cakes), a few new things (it was hard to choose, she got sooooo much stuff at Christmas) and we're going to go visit Grandma. I'd like to take her out to dinner ... but since we're going with family, it depends on them. And you know what, even *gasp!* without the party, she'll have a fantastic birthday.

There's a small chance the shuttle will go off today as well, when it was postponed last time, NASA said the next possible day to launch was 1/2. My grandmother lives about 20miles away from Kennedy Space Center, so I'm crossing my fingers that the shuttle goes off. I think that will make the best birthday memory.

10 Responses to “Julie's three!”

  1. Broken Arrow Says:
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    Yeah, you're probably not the norm to the outside world, but here in strange world of SA, I think it's perfectly reasonable. Or is it wrong for me to think that as well?

  2. collegemomma Says:
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    DS2 is turning 6 tomorrow and he's not getting a party. Our rule is that there are no parties until they turn 8. That's when DS1 had his first party. Before that it is all family celebrating together. I let him pick out his own present so we'll be going to the store to pick it out tomorrow. Usually I pick up a Publix cake, but I'll be making one instead this year. Then this weekend we'll go do something fun plus go out to eat using some gift cards we got for Christmas. Monday he goes back to school from winter break so I'll be bringing in cupcakes so he can celebrate his birthday with his Kindergarten class.

    Also I'm sorry to say that the shuttle isn't scheduled to go off now until January 10th. We've been waiting for it, too, because we can see it from our house here north of Daytona. My uncle works for them as a contractor though I'm not really sure what he does.

    Happy 3rd Birthday, Julie!

  3. miclason Says:
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    ...er, a cake and kids is a party...isn't it?
    Ale goes for the grand event...she loves the planning as much as she loves the party itself...but, she understands we have a budget for those things...

  4. Ima saver Says:
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    Happy birthday, little Julie!! My name is Julie too and I was named after my grandmother, Julie! My adopted daughter's name is also Julie Ann.

  5. monkeymama Says:
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    Oh yes, we are the only ones who refuse to rent a bounce house, hire ponies, have the party at a fancy place or hire a performer. The kids are 4 & 2! The birthday parties we have been to have been insane! The gifts more insane. I always ask for no gifts but no one listens.

    The last thing the kids need is more junk. Grandma's got that covered.

    Anyways, I fought it when they were younger and too little to care or remember. They have many years ahead for fancy parties and mounds of gifts that they *might* appreciate or remember. But I can't see renting a bounce house or entertainer for them any time either. I don't know what people are thinking. Somehow we survived without all the hype when we were kids. Wink

  6. monkeymama Says:
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    P.S. Happy Birthday!

  7. collegemomma Says:
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    Oops I made a mistake. The shuttle doesn't have a new launch date yet. They were going to launch on January 10th, but now they have to fix the booster so they haven't set a new date yet. Sorry for the mistake!

    Text is http://www.nasa.gov/mission_pages/shuttle/main/index.html and Link is
    http://www.nasa.gov/mission_pages/shuttle/main/index.html

  8. MarianneJ Says:
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    You are definitely not alone in how you are celebrating your DD's birthday. My DD just turned 9yo and she has ever only had a family birthday party. As a matter of fact she had no party at all last year because I was in school and could not even afford to invite my nieces/nephews. Instead I took her and the cousin she is closest to in age to Chuck E Cheese's for lunch with my DH and I. She is more than happy with the celebrations we have had and we always make her feel special on her day. Although I did tell her that next year (4th grade) she can have a party with classmates if she would like. She may not take me up on it since she really liked going to Chuck E Cheese's with my niece last year!

  9. reginaastralis Says:
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    I'm sad that the shuttle wasn't going up today, but I think it was too cold to stand outside anyways!

    Julie had an amazing birthday! She even got McDonald's for dinner. She's in HIGH heaven.

  10. JanH Says:
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    Happy, happy birthday to Julie! And to all the other little kiddos who are having birthdays!

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